Ladies, you have to agree with me, good sex is what we women want too. Its not just men who love sex but women do too. I don’t understand why some men believe that it’s all about them when their having sex which leads into my main topic. How hard is it to tell the guy he sucks in bed? It’s very hard especially when you have to FAKE it!

What is the best way of telling him without hurting his feelings? Well honestly, there isn’t any. If you’re concerned how he would react then try few things. Maybe have more foreplay before the intercourse. During your foreplay if you get your orgasm, hell! Enjoy it! Some times you’re not too comfortable during foreplay to get one so there are few other things you can do. Use sex toys and only the ones you like.
If you’re not aware of what kind you’ll like, go to a toy party. Toy parties normally consist of toys, lubricants, books, and sometimes there are strippers too. It can be fun if you have an open mind. If you’re the shy kind, my advice, leave that shyness at home when you attend one these parties. You can learn so much about toys, lubricants and even get more ideas on positions.
Once you like the toy, purchase it and use it alone for the few times until you get comfortable then introduce it to your guy. If he feels uncomfortable at the idea of using a toy, tell him this is some thing you want to try. Once he sees how much you enjoy it, he might get into it. He may feel threatened as well so make it very clear that this is something to spice things up, and not to replace him.
If these things don’t help then you need to talk to him. There’s no point in hiding or even faking an orgasm especially when you’re enjoying it. Make him understand that you also need to enjoy it as much as he does. By staying quiet you won’t achieve anything so speak your mind. If it happened the first couple times, let him know right now, because the longer you wait, the more offended he might feel.
So here are few ideas you can use to make him better in bed but there’s no guarantee if he will get good at it but at least you tried your best. Just in case nothing works, ladies you can always use that toy you bought ? It may not replace the real thing but it will definitely get the job done. Remember your satisfaction matters as much as any guy out there, so make sure you get yours!