Irritating isn’t it? Of course it’s irritating especially the way he treats you in front his friends. We women always want to act perfect or at least fit in when it comes down to his friends. Well why not? We try to be the perfect girl for them but sometimes they don’t treat us well. I know how upsetting it can get especially when you went all out to even hang out with them.

Depends, what type of friends he has, it’s not always a good idea to hang out with them. Why? Well you need to understand one thing. Men sometimes don’t feel comfortable hanging out their boy’s girlfriend. They are unable to express themselves to the full extent. Men like to joke in a different manor and they sometimes say things which you might take an offense to.

They’ll also make fun of your boyfriend for bringing you around. Then you ask why does he acts differently when your there. Well think about it. His speaks with his friend in a way he doesn’t talk to you. So your use to him talking to you in a way and when his hanging out with them, he doesn’t do the same. It’s like shifting into different gears. When you’re at home, you act differently in front your parents and same goes with friends. You have your way of expressing things with your girlfriends which sometimes you’re able to do with your guy.

That’s the main reason why they act so different and agree or not, you will take it as an offense. Why can’t he be cuddly and cute with me when we’re around his friends? Well ladies, his friends will think of your man as a sissy. Sounds dumb but that’s the truth. This is the main reason I am against hanging out with his friends. It’s different if the girlfriends are around and you all are hanging out but if its just boys, may be you shouldn’t go.

You might think, why can’t I go? I want to know his friends and get to know more about him. Honestly if that’s they reason you want to hang out with his friends, then you’re lying to yourself. You don’t want to know things about him, your there to get dirt on him and keep an eye on him. If that’s why your there, maybe you need to check few things with your self. You know, this is a step towards not trusting him. Getting dirt on him by hanging out with his friends, please do your self a favor and stop. This will only hurt your relationship and make you upset.

I can’t tell you exactly what to do but if you really have the urge to be around his friends, do it for a couple of times then leave them alone. Boys need to hang out boys. Might seem harsh but hey at least you’ll get to know a little bit about the crowd he hangs with. Some things you don’t want to get too involved in certain things.