Submitted by: S. Maharaj, SF California

Can we say uncomfortable! The last thing you need is to run into your ex. It’s bad enough to go through the break up but running into your ex is something no one wants to do. Let me just say, calm down. I know how difficult it is to see him after the break up and all the memories rushing back in, but ladies keep your cool. If you get all round up and he see’s that, then you have allowed him to get to you.

Never let him get to you and my advice, after your break up, look gorgeous. Dress up well, put on some make up, keep yourself in good shape so that way once he sees you, it will hit him what his missing. It’s a harsh thing to say, but why not let him see what he can’t have. It can be a very awkward situation when you run into him and he happens to be with his new girlfriend or a date. What to do? Feel like grabbing the girl’s hair and slamming her to the floor? Well don’t!

Don’t give her an attitude. She has nothing to do with your break up, therefore doesn’t deserve anything less but respect from you. Remember, be a bigger person by making them realize you’re not affected by this run in. Even if you have to fake the smile, do it! Ladies, never ever let your ex see you with that “I still miss you” look. If he was that worth it, you would have stayed but apparently it wasn’t. If this was an amicable decision or just him or you deciding, leave it that way and stop thinking, what could have been done.
You may think I’m asking you to pretend and not show your true feelings for seeing him again, but I ask you, what will you get when you do show him how much you miss him? How will that other lady feel? Would you like the idea if your new boyfriend’s ex ran into you both and start blabbing about her feelings toward him? Your beautiful and sexy, you will get a better man than him. Don’t get all caught up in your feelings and make a foolish decision. Be smart about it.

Another advice, do not call him after seeing him. Often we see women calling the guy and asking him the same old questions, how are you doing? Was that your new girl? Do you miss me? Please!! Leave it alone. Let him do what ever he wants and you, beautiful creature, go out and look gorgeous and see the world. There’s so much to learn and see so for once try something different.

At least it’s safe to say, the last memory for you ex will be, wow! She looked beautiful as ever. So keep it that way. Remember it’s always about you ladies! Keep a lasting impression of your self. And for god’s sake, don’t go back to him especially when you’re the one who dumped him. Like I always say, enjoy your life to the fullest, after all it’s about time you take care of yourself.