Threesome, men’s favorite subject! Ready for one? Well, we have all, at least gone over this discussion with our guy’s, once or twice or maybe more in the past. Who brings it up? In my experience men do. How do you feel about this? You might like the idea or if trying to keep your man around, you might give into it. My advices, if you don’t like the idea of sharing your guy with another woman, don’t do it! You might be the adventurous type and probably have this saying, I WILL TRY ANYTHING ONCE… Would you try doing this?

If your guy has been pressuring you into going for a threesome, then stop for a minute and check your relationship. What makes him feel that way? If his trying to give you this B.S, it will spice up your sex life, then don’t give into it. This is not what you want, what he wants. Having two women at once is so appealing for men but keep in mind, once you do this, he will continue asking you to do it again. It only takes one decision to ruin a relationship so make sure you think through before deciding on something.

As for me, I am not comfortable with this idea. If he keeps bugging you and if your try to teach him a lesson, try going for two guys and you. Trust me; he won’t like the idea at all. In fact he might drop the whole subject. I’m an old fashion gal, who believes it only involves two people in a relationship and that’s the same for sex life. Do not try and give into this to keep him happy, because what’s the guarantee he will be happy after this? What if he likes the other girl more then you? Are you willing to share?

To take a step like this, it takes a lot of courage for some women. I have always made a point in all my articles, whatever you decide to do, make sure it’s about you. If you go along with this, make sure you’re doing this for yourself and not for him. Take a step back and look at your relationship and see if this is worth it. Do not do something that your not happy with so if you’re not comfortable, let him know. If he pushes you, maybe his not the guy to be with.

I believe there are other ways to spice up your sex life. Maybe you should try using toys. At least this way you won’t be feeling jealous. If you feel it’s your job to keep him happy, make sure he understands it’s his job to keep you happy as well. I always believed that relationships are sometimes hard to maintain but to take a step like this, think twice. If you are ready to try threesome with another girl, choose the girl your comfortable with.

Some one you connect with and then introduce her to your guy. Try going out with her with your guy to dinner, drinks or even to a club. Get very comfortable then proceed with this step. Keep in mind; do not regret your decision. Good luck ladies with what ever you decide. Always think of your happiness first.